hit lines, or now better known, openers. are a prase , sentence , or a small story to get 2 people to communicate
There are tons of BAD hit lines out there, it is not advisable to use a sentence " do you come here often" or " you have beatiful eyes". they are not new, will "raise the womens sosial walue, and lower yours" (meaning, now you give your power to the women, dont give, be the prize your self, women love a man that is hard to get )
there are different kinds of canned openers, some of the basic ones are :
- oppinion openers (when ask womens oppinion on somthing INTERESTING!)
- "cheesy openers ( dont use, " the word of the day is legs, do you mind to come to my place to spread the word") <- horrible
- best openers are ones that are made up in the situation, they usually have something to do with the place your in ( like cofe, cinema etc.) " oh, isnt that just....."
here is a short list of the lines, that are not good, please, dont ruin your game whit these, only when you have really clever answer to the usual outcome. but when you have the game together, it really doesent matter, some of these might work in that point
- hey do you come here often
- gues who you look like,...beautiful
-what someone so beautiful does here allby her self
- what you do for living
-where you live
-what you drive
- strange that so beatiful women hast found a man yet
- oh, sry.
- hey, want to join our table (...in some cases, yes)
- wow, really good ass/boobs
-do you have boyfriend (later, not immidiately.... gues how easy it is to say " yes, good bye"....)
- you are so sexy i will lose it
- do you smoke
- do you have light
allmost anything that start or have " oh you are so beautifull". dont work, the others usualy dont work, but in some cases and circumstanses, yes.
some that might work:
- if you beg really well, i might come to dance with you
- hey, did you see the cat fight out side, it whas SO horrible, then.... ( just some basic bullshit, make up somthing that might be bought, there really doesent haveto be real cat fight outside)
-hey guys, what is your oppinion on ....( make somthing up. "of me getting a Z tattoo in.*here)
-do you believe in magic, ( and know how to do some....." no, well me and my friends didnt either, but we JUST had something unbelievable to happen to us)
- make up something, that will raise your sosiall walue, tease little the girl etc.
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maanantai 25. tammikuuta 2010
sunnuntai 24. tammikuuta 2010
basic advise on women and dating
if there is done some progres on the women, and it is time to....say, go to the first date. there are few basic ideas that are good to keep in mind, that will help your chanses whit the women
for "fist date,"
first thing to say about dating is, dont make it so formal: dont invite her to "first date", it makes things usually too tight, it should be some fun and enjoyable time spend together, not that you have to spend 4h in front of a mirror, to get ready to go to cinema. say somthing like " hey, im going to go to rent some movies, want to tag along, wear somthing confortable"
-don't invite the girl to movie if you want to make remarkable impression on her, it wont give you much time to talk to each other.
- don't invite the girl to dinner in restaurant, in them, the conversation usualy is only small talk, it is costly, usually for the man (and by paying the food, the women usually suspects that you will buy every other meal aswell, and so you are trying to by the women, bad.)
- find somthing fun, usual whit potential to be fun (.... usually childish) say. to build sand castles, to grocery shop, and 1 really good is ikea. because, it will give you lots to play whith while you do your shopping, (play play play, it will do magic. say. you are in ikea, then start to act some really strange scene, usually many men come quite easily to the game, say, ach like an old pair, "oh, ist that bed just wonderfull, it looks teadier that the last you broke, cause your.... (you know). come, let s go to test it!"
- dont try to buy a woman
- one of the best things is dancing, it says that you enjoy moving in your body, and you are confident and many more. also it gives perfect reason to get close to the women. ( and, do know how to dance, it is important
- acting time to time childish is a good thing, allways, is a bad thing
for "fist date,"
first thing to say about dating is, dont make it so formal: dont invite her to "first date", it makes things usually too tight, it should be some fun and enjoyable time spend together, not that you have to spend 4h in front of a mirror, to get ready to go to cinema. say somthing like " hey, im going to go to rent some movies, want to tag along, wear somthing confortable"
-don't invite the girl to movie if you want to make remarkable impression on her, it wont give you much time to talk to each other.
- don't invite the girl to dinner in restaurant, in them, the conversation usualy is only small talk, it is costly, usually for the man (and by paying the food, the women usually suspects that you will buy every other meal aswell, and so you are trying to by the women, bad.)
- find somthing fun, usual whit potential to be fun (.... usually childish) say. to build sand castles, to grocery shop, and 1 really good is ikea. because, it will give you lots to play whith while you do your shopping, (play play play, it will do magic. say. you are in ikea, then start to act some really strange scene, usually many men come quite easily to the game, say, ach like an old pair, "oh, ist that bed just wonderfull, it looks teadier that the last you broke, cause your.... (you know). come, let s go to test it!"
- dont try to buy a woman
- one of the best things is dancing, it says that you enjoy moving in your body, and you are confident and many more. also it gives perfect reason to get close to the women. ( and, do know how to dance, it is important
- acting time to time childish is a good thing, allways, is a bad thing
lauantai 23. tammikuuta 2010
if you dont want to be laught at....
To get laught at something humiliating while in the presence of women, is one of the worst thingst that can happen to a man. even worse is if the girls get to gether to gossip about your blunder laughing at you. for this mishappen not to happen, I advise you to read the following textfew of the very basic things that NOT to do:
- don't try to hang on a women who CLEARLY is not intrested,
- don't try to pick up your friends date,
- don't try to pick up the whole group, women dont "circulate" the men, "oh i did him last night, now its your turn". and especially, not simultaneously. it just doesent work easily
- don't try to pick up women whit their pitty for you, somthing you have done etc.
- dont say that you will do something terrible, to yourself, to the women or anybody/anything, if the thing doesent work
-afther 30min of knowing the women, dont say that you are in love
- remember! not even 1 woman is irreplaseable, there will come many many more women, so dont cling. ( there are 6% women in the world than men....so the ods are on your side)
- don't try to buy the woman with gifts, money, or anything like that
- dont cling
one of the most intresting ways to divide people to two groups is " the guys that are laughing to others" and the "ones that are laught at"
being in the second group will drop your game dramatically. and it will also crush many peoples confidence, that is one of the most important things in "pick-up".
so, a good way to bosot up your game is . to be in the first group. dont humiliate other, but have somthing "private" to laught at whit your date, it brings you closer and creates this" bond" between you two
have fun
tiistai 19. tammikuuta 2010
the foolproof method!
for those, who are not that interested, in the in/self- gameand for those, who have it
and for everyone!
here is THE foolproof method "how to actract ANY women"
it works, no matter : how you look, whats your car, income,how tall are you, how old are you. it all DOES NOT MATTER
the only thing that matters is your CONFIDENCE: to your self, and to the "method".
it is a summ-up from different sources, nothing (hopefully) under any ofthe copyright laws
to put it simply, pick-up consist of 3 major parst,
NONE have NOTHING to do whit looks and age, only self-CONFEDENSE
1) the first thing to do is create good first impression, it is REALLY hard to change after, and it really much is it. " women choose in the first seconds, if they will have sex with the man"
so when you come to the place, be that man every one looks at, enjoy the "popularity". and allso have good, fun attitude, dont bee too strict, smile, good posture+ bodylanguage
2) when you meet the girl you want, next thing there is, is OPENER!
opener is a "hit-line" (not normal) there is large wariety of them to choose from, but in short, it is a centense to have two people to begin conversation. it is "un-normal", so it creates acctraction fast, if you stuck with the " life, job,family, etc." circle, it wont work. it need to be INTERESTING
3) "time constraints"- means that " i cant be here wery long, cause my friends wait me" . or anything that lets them know that you arent going to stay there whole night
4) from here , you can choose to take many directions, usually it is interesting story, some test, jokes,. and, nothing like " what you like to do" <- no!!
5) in this stage , you have allready talked to her some time, and maybe she havent turned you down, and you are doing fine, its good to ask the number (oh, dont ask, literaly) " i have to leave, but is there a way to continue this conversation". or anything like that will do
6) "it takes from few hours to few days to have sexual intercourse with your gf. spend them funly, take her somwhere where she cant imagine her to go, nothing boring will do, or somthing that shes not intrested either, it must be fun, for both of you
from openers and mid-game will come more
lauantai 16. tammikuuta 2010
the foundation
In the intrenet, there is a vast amout of usable information, so why to create the weel for a 2.nd time, in this chapter, I will give you lots of useful infromation and links, to build the foundation for dating women
like in the " the community" chapter, i wrote that there are lots of UNBELIEVALBY talented "gurus", "pick-up artists","venusian artists" or what ever you want to call them. almost every one of them has their personal program for meeting women. it is not (in many cases) free. but the material is wery good
what i suggest for starting is
- the newsletters!!! ( in these websites, they ask your email to send a free newsleter where they try to sell their stuff and info of comming seminars etc. but there are really good information in many of them)
especially : david deangelo, cliffs list
- log in to ( i found wery helping) for example : david deangelo (to google) -> website. newsletter, its COMPLETELY FREE and there is TONS of usefull materall in them
- look for chats and forum, in many of them, there is tested material, and you can have some info what is to come if you try that or that. and allso you can ask your own questions aswell
-in youtobe, there are few good pick-up tecniques aswell
afther the newsletter, and the free stuff,:
-PUA (pick up artists) e-books, they usualy cost somthing, but they are worth it! ( and allso, skribd, is a fantastic site to find books, just write the author or the name of the book in the "search" - bar, and . tadaa)
-the audio tapes, or the video ,can be bought from the websites.... and the "intitle:index of" works wonders, then add what you want to seach, say, PUA -> "intitle:index of" PUA to google, and ...., im not advising this, cause it violates the copyright. they are worth it
- seminars. cost is not tottaly minimal, but it really is worht it, many of the PUAs work for their company that helps guys to meet women, and they do seminars, where they show, in bars and in bublic, what to do. tottaly worht their price
like in the " the community" chapter, i wrote that there are lots of UNBELIEVALBY talented "gurus", "pick-up artists","venusian artists" or what ever you want to call them. almost every one of them has their personal program for meeting women. it is not (in many cases) free. but the material is wery good
what i suggest for starting is
- the newsletters!!! ( in these websites, they ask your email to send a free newsleter where they try to sell their stuff and info of comming seminars etc. but there are really good information in many of them)
especially : david deangelo, cliffs list
- log in to ( i found wery helping) for example : david deangelo (to google) -> website. newsletter, its COMPLETELY FREE and there is TONS of usefull materall in them
- look for chats and forum, in many of them, there is tested material, and you can have some info what is to come if you try that or that. and allso you can ask your own questions aswell
-in youtobe, there are few good pick-up tecniques aswell
afther the newsletter, and the free stuff,:
-PUA (pick up artists) e-books, they usualy cost somthing, but they are worth it! ( and allso, skribd, is a fantastic site to find books, just write the author or the name of the book in the "search" - bar, and . tadaa)
-the audio tapes, or the video ,can be bought from the websites.... and the "intitle:index of" works wonders, then add what you want to seach, say, PUA -> "intitle:index of" PUA to google, and ...., im not advising this, cause it violates the copyright. they are worth it
- seminars. cost is not tottaly minimal, but it really is worht it, many of the PUAs work for their company that helps guys to meet women, and they do seminars, where they show, in bars and in bublic, what to do. tottaly worht their price
"the community"
"the community" or "seduction community" is (wikipedia ->) "a loose-knit subculture of men who strive for better sexual and romantic success with women through self-improvement and a greater understanding of social psychology"
it started started in the 1990 decade, and has sky roketed from then.
it is a place where the guys who know "the stuff" talk about it and have put it in a way that could be understood, many of the "good players" have their personal material, websites, videos, and ways of working,(whit women and teaching)
many people dont think that it really exists, but try to google : mystery method, ross jeffries, the game, neil strauss, david deangelo
and you'll see what i mean,
the community is not wery closed, but since it hasnt got a lot of public awarenes, (what is a good thing) its has managet to stay "quite" small
there is a common belief that " pick-up is NOT somthing that can be learned"- and it really is only a big LIE, it really is!. in the community, the men have done "the thing", written the "blue-print" to success with women.
not many people apresiate this, (espesially women, but still,...they had to lear how to put the make-up, so why cant we....) but for those that really are intrested and want to make a change in their life, this is it!
it started started in the 1990 decade, and has sky roketed from then.
it is a place where the guys who know "the stuff" talk about it and have put it in a way that could be understood, many of the "good players" have their personal material, websites, videos, and ways of working,(whit women and teaching)
many people dont think that it really exists, but try to google : mystery method, ross jeffries, the game, neil strauss, david deangelo
and you'll see what i mean,
the community is not wery closed, but since it hasnt got a lot of public awarenes, (what is a good thing) its has managet to stay "quite" small
there is a common belief that " pick-up is NOT somthing that can be learned"- and it really is only a big LIE, it really is!. in the community, the men have done "the thing", written the "blue-print" to success with women.
not many people apresiate this, (espesially women, but still,...they had to lear how to put the make-up, so why cant we....) but for those that really are intrested and want to make a change in their life, this is it!
the start
the very fist thing to learn about dating women, is the foundation; way of thinking
Untill now, many of the guys I know, who havent been so popular whit women, have few...aspects or personal traits. Few things that they do, unstop!
here is small list of the "bad" habits, that the UNPOPULAR have:
- they ALWAYS look up to the girl
- asking the girl to lead (where would you like to go, what to do, and when)
- being the "the nice guy" ( you know....)
-nervous, very little self-confidense, etc
and here' s little "taste" of what the " the guys" have
- "the" bodylanguage
- allmost unitrested in the girl
- lots and lots of playing, teasing, kino (touching)
- life together
-brain together ( good sence of humor, style, able to read the situation)
and lots and lots more: alfa stuff
if you think rationally (whit your brain) some things in this list sound so bad that they sould send the girl SO fast away ....but, think again
I know that you have seen the "assholes", who, allmost allways steals the "good girls". and whit what???
handsome- dude, noWAY
good behavuour- no
rich- no
well educated- mostly...no
then what????
here is the "normal" stuff that guys think will atract women:
-handsome
-rich
-well educated
- modern
-well dressed
-"cool"
- in some "right" age
- very athletic
and gues what, all this shi* does NOTHING to do whit women, few might help you, but, some are really working against you, brining the odds even lover.
and also, you just seen the "asshole" to take your girl whit hardly none of the characters in the list....
somethings got to change!!!
i will do my best to help you whit that, i KNOW roughly what it feels, it is not that long when I where the same, now, i want to help all you guys to be successful whit women also!
the first thing to do, when starting to meet women,
is
GET YOUR SHI* TOGETHER
if you have no clue what your doing, women WILL sence that. and the cliche" fake it untill make it- works, little: you can learn vast amounts of openers, negs, indicators of highervalue, intresting stories, etc. and then, it's SO easy to mess up some little shit test, and then its all over,
IF you dont have your shi* together
im not talking of the (on grade 4-10) 7 and 8 's im talking about the 10s!!!! and really, it IS possible to make them intrested, but whit out the foundation , dude, no chance.
"then how do I start"?- you can start manyways, mostly by 2,
1. learn the tricks and "magic stuff" first, and get your game together afther- works , but is quite slowly, and lots of stuff that you have no idea will come up
2. get your game together-> you understand the situation, know by instict what to say. works wonders. trust me!
Untill now, many of the guys I know, who havent been so popular whit women, have few...aspects or personal traits. Few things that they do, unstop!
here is small list of the "bad" habits, that the UNPOPULAR have:
- they ALWAYS look up to the girl
- asking the girl to lead (where would you like to go, what to do, and when)
- being the "the nice guy" ( you know....)
-nervous, very little self-confidense, etc
and here' s little "taste" of what the " the guys" have
- "the" bodylanguage
- allmost unitrested in the girl
- lots and lots of playing, teasing, kino (touching)
- life together
-brain together ( good sence of humor, style, able to read the situation)
and lots and lots more: alfa stuff
if you think rationally (whit your brain) some things in this list sound so bad that they sould send the girl SO fast away ....but, think again
I know that you have seen the "assholes", who, allmost allways steals the "good girls". and whit what???
handsome- dude, noWAY
good behavuour- no
rich- no
well educated- mostly...no
then what????
here is the "normal" stuff that guys think will atract women:
-handsome
-rich
-well educated
- modern
-well dressed
-"cool"
- in some "right" age
- very athletic
and gues what, all this shi* does NOTHING to do whit women, few might help you, but, some are really working against you, brining the odds even lover.
and also, you just seen the "asshole" to take your girl whit hardly none of the characters in the list....
somethings got to change!!!
i will do my best to help you whit that, i KNOW roughly what it feels, it is not that long when I where the same, now, i want to help all you guys to be successful whit women also!
the first thing to do, when starting to meet women,
is
GET YOUR SHI* TOGETHER
if you have no clue what your doing, women WILL sence that. and the cliche" fake it untill make it- works, little: you can learn vast amounts of openers, negs, indicators of highervalue, intresting stories, etc. and then, it's SO easy to mess up some little shit test, and then its all over,
IF you dont have your shi* together
im not talking of the (on grade 4-10) 7 and 8 's im talking about the 10s!!!! and really, it IS possible to make them intrested, but whit out the foundation , dude, no chance.
"then how do I start"?- you can start manyways, mostly by 2,
1. learn the tricks and "magic stuff" first, and get your game together afther- works , but is quite slowly, and lots of stuff that you have no idea will come up
2. get your game together-> you understand the situation, know by instict what to say. works wonders. trust me!
intro
only 3 years ago, i thought, "man, i must me the only man in the WHOLE EARTH that just cant atract women".
I found that it whas really depressing me, wearing out mentaly and physicaly and had the GREATEST idea, that did schange my whole life:
- I decided to learn how to date women
the journey is long, WERY long, and I do know, its not going to end, while im here. You can compare that to some sports that your really into, you know your good, and maybe the best, and still LOTS of lear, and lots of little things to polish.
in this blog I PROMISE to do my best to help YOU to achieve, women you want, and the women that you DESERVE
onward
In this blog, I will make my best to collect THE BEST materiall thats out there, and for free
- links
- personal experience
-some very basic tactiks that will get you far.
and LOTS OF MORE
allso, this is not just somthing i do 1 time a year, its ongoing blog, and i NEED YOUR HELP, write to me what there is to improve, add, correct: spelling and info mistaces( my 1.st language is not english, so try to keep up)
see you soon
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