this is how you pick your self a women of your life!

For everybody that have reached the age of "manhood" have probobly discovered that it is really hard to "pick-up" women, and it need experience and SKILL!. yeah, it is so fun, but if guys use their own brains, trying to figure out how to win the woman...many are badly lost. for again, those that have founded out that picking-up women is indeed difficult, it may have occured that our brains work differently, men and womend DO NOT "see the world as same.

men usualy try to think rationaly, reasoning whit logic, while women use their "feelings" and intuition.

men and women also see differently, while men look the whole picture, women are keen to little things. for example, a man might have "it" allmost together, then when women gossip, " oh, but did you see his socks!!"- and the whole chance is blown away. it really is that easy, to fry your self..



what women expect form a man:
from a point of wiew from a woman, mostly of fashion and how you look
1. a man must bee clean, the overal picture must be clean, for example, week old socks are not tolerated, and all greasy hair WILL scare the women , before 100meters

2. stylish, and situational clothing is a must, you must have quite good sence of fashion, it is not only andvisable, but a must , to learn, atleast somthing of mens grooming and fashion, if want to bee popular with women. allso the clothing must be somthing that will "raise you upp", somthing that everyone will see and notice, i dont mean to go over the board, but somtimes (not allways) "cheesy" clothes are ok

3. clothes naturaly must be clean and not broken

4. clothes must look good on the man, not too big or too tight. it must be somthing that the man has picket up himself, and not his mom from old flea market (btw. there are still some good stuff allso)

6. usually it is advisable to have short hair, its maintaince is easy, and it gives a sence of confidence, if you trust in your self (not thinking, oh shi* i must look stupid)

7. take notise in the fingernail allso, they should be clean, and not long, it wont harm, if they are taken good care of

8. eye glasses are somwhat out of the fashion (currently) so if you dont knock the womens legs out, when they see you, it is advisable to wear contact lenses

9. accessetory. those little things, rings, ornaments, etc. why women wear them,....think that, and maybe pay a visit to some place where you could find some of them suiting to you,....btw. wedding ring is not advisable in pick up

10. sigarets are a way of sosialising, but they really dont boost your "game". so dont use them while in pick up, it will drop your game, cause, not that many women are into smokers, "it is like liking an ashtray" (heard my self)

11. overall attitude should be fun and alive, reason for life and lifes joy should come from you. it will atract women for shure

12. personality and distinguishable is a must!, it will say that your not that other/ any other guy. you are speciall!

how women expect you to behave:

1. women are NOT intrested in drunken guys, alcohol will take your game away. it is not that acctracting if her date passes out while in the middle of conversation, allso it will not do good to way of thinking, becoming over confident,(sometimes a good thing, but will lead to " it whas becaus of beer, and not your self) it will also drop down your sences, you dont see anymore those little things that women do to tell you if they are intrested

2. too cocky is bad, little cocky yes ( there is even a program by david deangelo " funny and cocky, that is basically beeing cocky while funny, works wonder, )

3. beeing a gentlemen, is a good thing, if you dont take it to your behaviour (tease is good, and while teasing, opening the door for her is even better!) it makes you remembered

4. if you are pushing the acctraction, nothing will hapen, dont try to "force" them, ...btw. it is better for you to take it slowly (or just be like you take it slowly. for expample " hey, we are not going to have sex tonight,<- killer)

5. it is also good thing to "read the situation" , know when you are supposed to leave and when wanted

6. some, little, very little compliments are ok, but dont flatter, just simple, and very little quantities, (for exp. in 1 night, say 1 time somthing like " nice earrings, and by the way, did you see the cat fight out side, it whas SO crazy!.....)


what kind of a personality attracts women:

1. man must be confident !!!! really important,really, really important!

2.man must know where he is going and what he is dooing, it wont give a good picture of man if he is trying to get the women (who doesent want to lead!) to lead! or just sailing cicrles and trying to think what he is doing

3. man must be honest, say the truth, it is always berrer than lies, and lies, are harder to keep, and have greater possibility for women to figure them out

4. a man must have good sence of humor ( and the women also, if she didnt "take" your joke, and if it whas good, there is a good chanse she wont get many others, so maybe it is better to change the view.

5. man must be unprejudiced, trying something new is also good thing

6. do not never ever be jealous, it will crash your game

7. a man must be ambitious ( not too) and must have a reason for live, and goals in the life are really important!

8. dont be naive, or childish, ( some times it is still quite good, the games we used to play when we where kids, are popular again, remember the thumb restling. it is killer, " oh what, you dont agree! oh, ok! now it is THE TIME, c'mon if you can take it, * and put your thumb up* thumb restling...and btw. it is REALLY IMPORTANT TO WIN! dont lose, win any way possible, cheat if you must, but dont lose

9. be able to read the situation, when to talk, and when to shut up

10. leave space for the women, dont cling to her! give her time to miss you , will do wonders

11. every man must be unique!