Body-language. part 1 IMPORTANT

Chapter of body-language, and eye-contact

why do I need body-language, when dating women?


Well gues what, it is 1 of the most important aspects when dating

Normal conversation whit women, is said to be MOSTLY bodylanguage, from 70-93%(psychology book, wikipedia etc., look up if you dont believe me.)
and words only 7%

So. Bodylanguage is VERY IMPORTANT

Then what can be done to get better bodylanguage?
is is only 1 thing, = "you are THE man"
everything you do, should be about that you are THE man, and there is no one more interesting to be with

few basic knoledge about bodylanguage:


sitting:
- lean forvard : says that you "cling" to your conversation partner
- lean back: you are confident," open to attack", and confidence is THE thing
- arms crossed on your torso: afraid of somthing, "defend your body"
- arms "loose": you are relaxed and fine whit the situation
- legs crossed: again, afraid of somthing that needs to bee defended from
- legs "open" : confidence, and allso the more you take space, the more you are interesting to women, also so big bals ,they need space (good , even if not true)

walking:
- your posture!! really important, need to get it fixed if not straight, the way you carry your self talks lot of how you get along in your body. good ,straight posture is always a positive thing
- foot are pointed little outward of the torso, ` ´ (those dots are feet), says that you are confidend and you are wort of the attention you get
- the whole walking style is to be good, arms little loose, maybe in pochet, not deeply. "so big arms" that they need som space for their self also.

!!!!eye contact!!!!!
MOST IMPORTANT ASPECT OF BODY-LANGUAGE!

yes, eye contact,

heard of the cliches " eyes are windows to soul, eyes cant lie...etc."
there is some truth to that!

have you noticed, that usualy, when ...say like in cafe, if theres some BEATIFUL gir, you are looking at, and then , she looks at you, straight to eyes, you get SO nervous, immediately you look away, you dont even think about that, you just do

gues what that says about you? ...not too much confidence
so it is really importat TO KEEP EYE CONTACT,really, it is.
try this:
next time when walking in city, look at women to eyes, and dont flinch, or look away, just keep the eye contact, this gives INCREDIBLE boost to you r selfconfidence , when the women looks away first, afther that, it is ON , no mather what you look like, if you just have the confidence to look a women to eyes , till SHE LOOKS A WAY FIRST, you have to try it out.
and for the killer, you will feel if there is somthing between you 2, so SMILE
and , oh man, THE GAME IS ON, this gives you the edge.

keeping eye contact untill women looks away first says that: you are WERY confident, and not afraid, you are "trustworthy" (because, if you try to run away from her gaze, it says that you have somthing to hide). so it is a major thing to keep it

also, this gives you somthing fun to do if bored in city, and it will help you realy much in future, when dealing whit women ,and people normaly