hit lines , a.k.a. openers

hit lines, or now better known, openers. are a prase , sentence , or a small story to get 2 people to communicate

There are tons of BAD hit lines out there, it is not advisable to use a sentence " do you come here often" or " you have beatiful eyes". they are not new, will "raise the womens sosial walue, and lower yours" (meaning, now you give your power to the women, dont give, be the prize your self, women love a man that is hard to get )

there are different kinds of canned openers,  some of the basic ones are :
- oppinion openers (when ask womens oppinion on somthing INTERESTING!)
- "cheesy openers ( dont use, " the word of the day is legs, do you mind to come to my place to spread the word") <- horrible
- best openers are ones that are made up in the situation, they usually  have something to do with the place your in ( like cofe, cinema etc.) " oh, isnt that just....."



here is a short list of the lines, that are not good, please, dont ruin your game whit these, only when you have really clever answer to the usual outcome.  but when you have the game together, it really doesent matter, some of these might work in that point

- hey do you come here often
- gues who you look like,...beautiful
-what someone so beautiful does here allby her self
- what you do for living
-where you live
-what you drive
- strange that so beatiful women hast found a man yet
- oh, sry.
- hey, want to join our table (...in some cases, yes)
- wow, really good  ass/boobs
-do you have boyfriend (later, not immidiately.... gues how easy it is to say " yes, good bye"....)
- you are so sexy i will lose it
- do you smoke
- do you have light

allmost anything that start or have " oh you are so beautifull". dont work, the others usualy dont work, but in some cases and circumstanses, yes.

some that might work:
- if you beg really well, i might come to dance with you
- hey, did you see the cat fight out side, it whas SO horrible, then.... ( just some basic bullshit, make up somthing that might be bought, there really doesent haveto be real cat fight outside)
-hey guys, what is your oppinion on ....( make somthing up.  "of me getting a Z tattoo in.*here)
-do you believe in magic, ( and know how to do some....." no,  well me and my friends didnt either, but we  JUST had something unbelievable to happen to us)
- make up something, that will raise your sosiall walue, tease little the girl etc.

basic advise on women and dating

if there is done some progres on the women, and it is time to....say, go to the first date. there are few basic ideas that are good to keep in mind, that will help your chanses whit the women

for "fist date,"
first thing to say about dating is, dont make it so formal: dont invite her to "first date", it makes things usually too tight, it should be some fun and enjoyable time spend together, not that you have to spend 4h in front of a mirror, to get ready to go to cinema.  say somthing like " hey, im going to go to rent some movies, want to tag along, wear somthing confortable"

-don't invite the girl to movie if you want to make remarkable impression on her, it wont give you much time to talk to each other. 

- don't invite the girl to dinner in restaurant, in them, the conversation usualy is only small talk, it is costly, usually for the man (and by paying the food, the women usually suspects that you will buy every other meal aswell, and so you are trying to by the women, bad.)

- find somthing fun, usual whit potential to be fun (.... usually childish)  say. to build sand castles, to grocery shop, and 1 really good is ikea. because, it will give you lots to play whith while you do your shopping, (play play play, it will do magic. say. you are in ikea, then start to act some really strange scene, usually many men come quite easily to the game, say, ach like an old pair,  "oh, ist that bed just wonderfull, it looks teadier that the last you broke, cause your.... (you know).  come, let s go to test it!"

- dont try to buy a woman

- one of the best things is dancing,  it says that you enjoy moving in your body, and you are confident and many more. also it gives perfect reason to get close to the women. ( and, do know how to dance, it is important

- acting time to time childish is a good thing, allways, is a bad thing

if you dont want to be laught at....

To get laught at something humiliating while in the presence of women, is one of the worst thingst that can happen to a man. even worse is if the girls get to gether to gossip about your blunder laughing at you. for this mishappen not to happen, I advise you to read the following text

few of the very basic things that NOT to do:
- don't try to hang on a women who CLEARLY is not intrested,
- don't try to pick up your  friends date,
- don't try to pick up the whole group, women dont "circulate" the men, "oh i did him last night, now its your turn".  and especially, not simultaneously. it just doesent work easily
- don't try to pick up women whit their pitty for you, somthing you have done etc.
- dont say that you will do something terrible, to yourself, to the women or anybody/anything, if the thing doesent work
-afther 30min of knowing the women, dont say that you are in love
- remember! not even 1 woman is irreplaseable,  there will come many many more women, so dont cling. ( there are 6% women in the world than men....so the ods are on your side)
- don't try to buy the woman with gifts, money, or anything like that
- dont cling

one of the most intresting ways to divide people to two groups is " the guys that are laughing to others" and the "ones that are laught at"

being in the second group will  drop your game dramatically. and it will also crush many peoples confidence, that is one of the most important things in "pick-up".

so, a good way to bosot up your game is . to be in the first group. dont humiliate other, but have somthing "private" to laught at whit your date, it brings you closer and creates this" bond" between you two

have fun

this is how you pick your self a women of your life!

For everybody that have reached the age of "manhood" have probobly discovered that it is really hard to "pick-up" women, and it need experience and SKILL!. yeah, it is so fun, but if guys use their own brains, trying to figure out how to win the woman...many are badly lost. for again, those that have founded out that picking-up women is indeed difficult, it may have occured that our brains work differently, men and womend DO NOT "see the world as same.

men usualy try to think rationaly, reasoning whit logic, while women use their "feelings" and intuition.

men and women also see differently, while men look the whole picture, women are keen to little things. for example, a man might have "it" allmost together, then when women gossip, " oh, but did you see his socks!!"- and the whole chance is blown away. it really is that easy, to fry your self..



what women expect form a man:
from a point of wiew from a woman, mostly of fashion and how you look
1. a man must bee clean, the overal picture must be clean, for example, week old socks are not tolerated, and all greasy hair WILL scare the women , before 100meters

2. stylish, and situational clothing is a must, you must have quite good sence of fashion, it is not only andvisable, but a must , to learn, atleast somthing of mens grooming and fashion, if want to bee popular with women. allso the clothing must be somthing that will "raise you upp", somthing that everyone will see and notice, i dont mean to go over the board, but somtimes (not allways) "cheesy" clothes are ok

3. clothes naturaly must be clean and not broken

4. clothes must look good on the man, not too big or too tight. it must be somthing that the man has picket up himself, and not his mom from old flea market (btw. there are still some good stuff allso)

6. usually it is advisable to have short hair, its maintaince is easy, and it gives a sence of confidence, if you trust in your self (not thinking, oh shi* i must look stupid)

7. take notise in the fingernail allso, they should be clean, and not long, it wont harm, if they are taken good care of

8. eye glasses are somwhat out of the fashion (currently) so if you dont knock the womens legs out, when they see you, it is advisable to wear contact lenses

9. accessetory. those little things, rings, ornaments, etc. why women wear them,....think that, and maybe pay a visit to some place where you could find some of them suiting to you,....btw. wedding ring is not advisable in pick up

10. sigarets are a way of sosialising, but they really dont boost your "game". so dont use them while in pick up, it will drop your game, cause, not that many women are into smokers, "it is like liking an ashtray" (heard my self)

11. overall attitude should be fun and alive, reason for life and lifes joy should come from you. it will atract women for shure

12. personality and distinguishable is a must!, it will say that your not that other/ any other guy. you are speciall!

how women expect you to behave:

1. women are NOT intrested in drunken guys, alcohol will take your game away. it is not that acctracting if her date passes out while in the middle of conversation, allso it will not do good to way of thinking, becoming over confident,(sometimes a good thing, but will lead to " it whas becaus of beer, and not your self) it will also drop down your sences, you dont see anymore those little things that women do to tell you if they are intrested

2. too cocky is bad, little cocky yes ( there is even a program by david deangelo " funny and cocky, that is basically beeing cocky while funny, works wonder, )

3. beeing a gentlemen, is a good thing, if you dont take it to your behaviour (tease is good, and while teasing, opening the door for her is even better!) it makes you remembered

4. if you are pushing the acctraction, nothing will hapen, dont try to "force" them, ...btw. it is better for you to take it slowly (or just be like you take it slowly. for expample " hey, we are not going to have sex tonight,<- killer)

5. it is also good thing to "read the situation" , know when you are supposed to leave and when wanted

6. some, little, very little compliments are ok, but dont flatter, just simple, and very little quantities, (for exp. in 1 night, say 1 time somthing like " nice earrings, and by the way, did you see the cat fight out side, it whas SO crazy!.....)


what kind of a personality attracts women:

1. man must be confident !!!! really important,really, really important!

2.man must know where he is going and what he is dooing, it wont give a good picture of man if he is trying to get the women (who doesent want to lead!) to lead! or just sailing cicrles and trying to think what he is doing

3. man must be honest, say the truth, it is always berrer than lies, and lies, are harder to keep, and have greater possibility for women to figure them out

4. a man must have good sence of humor ( and the women also, if she didnt "take" your joke, and if it whas good, there is a good chanse she wont get many others, so maybe it is better to change the view.

5. man must be unprejudiced, trying something new is also good thing

6. do not never ever be jealous, it will crash your game

7. a man must be ambitious ( not too) and must have a reason for live, and goals in the life are really important!

8. dont be naive, or childish, ( some times it is still quite good, the games we used to play when we where kids, are popular again, remember the thumb restling. it is killer, " oh what, you dont agree! oh, ok! now it is THE TIME, c'mon if you can take it, * and put your thumb up* thumb restling...and btw. it is REALLY IMPORTANT TO WIN! dont lose, win any way possible, cheat if you must, but dont lose

9. be able to read the situation, when to talk, and when to shut up

10. leave space for the women, dont cling to her! give her time to miss you , will do wonders

11. every man must be unique!

opinion openers

this article will be about the opinion openers

opinion openers are prases, that you use to get 2 people talking and it is unique, and interesting, allso usualy your target will be fine with answering even longer questions

anyway, they are perfect for beginner, or someone that is not so confident,


basically, oppinion openers are

hey guys (even they are girls)

i need your oppinion on thins:
which do girls prefer X (make somthing up, ) or Y (again, somthing up)

-> why, isnt (somthing good about the one they didnt pick) better??

like:

hey guys i need your oppinion this quick, do girls prefer ...guitar player over pianist...

and there you go


another type of oppinion opener is that "what you think of----" for example: hey guys, what you think of me getting a tattoo, which kind to where (when it gets going)


they are perfect because:
-its unique, girls are fed up whit boys trying to kiss their ass, whit cheesy hituplines
- they make them think a little, and really aswer
-and its just a starter, it really ist that big deal, you just ask them a question, if their not cool, just leave afther the answer

the foolproof method!

for those, who are not that interested, in the in/self- game
and for those, who have it
and for everyone!

here is THE foolproof method "how to actract ANY women"

it works, no matter : how you look, whats your car, income,how tall are you, how old are you. it all DOES NOT MATTER

the only thing that matters is your CONFIDENCE: to your self, and to the "method".
it is a summ-up from different sources, nothing (hopefully) under any ofthe copyright laws

to put it simply, pick-up consist of 3 major parst,
NONE have NOTHING to do whit looks and age, only self-CONFEDENSE

1) the first thing to do is create good first impression, it is REALLY hard to change after, and it really much is it. " women choose in the first seconds, if they will have sex with the man"

so when you come to the place, be that man every one looks at, enjoy the "popularity". and allso have good, fun attitude, dont bee too strict, smile, good posture+ bodylanguage

2) when you meet the girl you want, next thing there is, is OPENER!
opener is a "hit-line" (not normal) there is large wariety of them to choose from, but in short, it is a centense to have two people to begin conversation. it is "un-normal", so it creates acctraction fast, if you stuck with the " life, job,family, etc." circle, it wont work. it need to be INTERESTING

3) "time constraints"- means that " i cant be here wery long, cause my friends wait me" . or anything that lets them know that you arent going to stay there whole night

4) from here , you can choose to take many directions, usually it is interesting story, some test, jokes,. and, nothing like " what you like to do" <- no!!

5) in this stage , you have allready talked to her some time, and maybe she havent turned you down, and you are doing fine, its good to ask the number (oh, dont ask, literaly) " i have to leave, but is there a way to continue this conversation". or anything like that will do

6) "it takes from few hours to few days to have sexual intercourse with your gf. spend them funly, take her somwhere where she cant imagine her to go, nothing boring will do, or somthing that shes not intrested either, it must be fun, for both of you


from openers and mid-game will come more

Body-language. part 1 IMPORTANT

Chapter of body-language, and eye-contact

why do I need body-language, when dating women?


Well gues what, it is 1 of the most important aspects when dating

Normal conversation whit women, is said to be MOSTLY bodylanguage, from 70-93%(psychology book, wikipedia etc., look up if you dont believe me.)
and words only 7%

So. Bodylanguage is VERY IMPORTANT

Then what can be done to get better bodylanguage?
is is only 1 thing, = "you are THE man"
everything you do, should be about that you are THE man, and there is no one more interesting to be with

few basic knoledge about bodylanguage:


sitting:
- lean forvard : says that you "cling" to your conversation partner
- lean back: you are confident," open to attack", and confidence is THE thing
- arms crossed on your torso: afraid of somthing, "defend your body"
- arms "loose": you are relaxed and fine whit the situation
- legs crossed: again, afraid of somthing that needs to bee defended from
- legs "open" : confidence, and allso the more you take space, the more you are interesting to women, also so big bals ,they need space (good , even if not true)

walking:
- your posture!! really important, need to get it fixed if not straight, the way you carry your self talks lot of how you get along in your body. good ,straight posture is always a positive thing
- foot are pointed little outward of the torso, ` ´ (those dots are feet), says that you are confidend and you are wort of the attention you get
- the whole walking style is to be good, arms little loose, maybe in pochet, not deeply. "so big arms" that they need som space for their self also.

!!!!eye contact!!!!!
MOST IMPORTANT ASPECT OF BODY-LANGUAGE!

yes, eye contact,

heard of the cliches " eyes are windows to soul, eyes cant lie...etc."
there is some truth to that!

have you noticed, that usualy, when ...say like in cafe, if theres some BEATIFUL gir, you are looking at, and then , she looks at you, straight to eyes, you get SO nervous, immediately you look away, you dont even think about that, you just do

gues what that says about you? ...not too much confidence
so it is really importat TO KEEP EYE CONTACT,really, it is.
try this:
next time when walking in city, look at women to eyes, and dont flinch, or look away, just keep the eye contact, this gives INCREDIBLE boost to you r selfconfidence , when the women looks away first, afther that, it is ON , no mather what you look like, if you just have the confidence to look a women to eyes , till SHE LOOKS A WAY FIRST, you have to try it out.
and for the killer, you will feel if there is somthing between you 2, so SMILE
and , oh man, THE GAME IS ON, this gives you the edge.

keeping eye contact untill women looks away first says that: you are WERY confident, and not afraid, you are "trustworthy" (because, if you try to run away from her gaze, it says that you have somthing to hide). so it is a major thing to keep it

also, this gives you somthing fun to do if bored in city, and it will help you realy much in future, when dealing whit women ,and people normaly

what to do when aproaching (bodylanguage)

what to do when aproaching:

when getting to the place:
- have positive energy (be hapy, social, fun to be whit)
- have clothes that gets everyones interest
- choose a target (person you want to approach)
-(optional) have good wing man , booosts selfconfidence, and have som1 to help you in tought situation

when approaching your tarket:
-KEEEP EYE CONTACT! ( bodylanguage chap. comming soon) really important
- have good body-language
- have positive energy
- dont go sraight, behind, or front, quite scary. and you dont want to be

when are in the presence of the target
- opener
- routines
- leanback - bodylanguage
- "girl is not everything"- attitude
- good voice controll, and bodylanguage (you can't IMAGINE how important that is!)
- neg, play, when caught the thing going

What to do before aproaching women (bodylanguage)

what to do before aproaching women:

way before:
- learn the sosial game
- "get your shi* together
- master some of the pick-up lines, routines etc. (dont go empty handed, not for the first time)

few hours before:
- "check" yourself ( clean, the hygiene, beard , ....you know)
- "check" your clothes (clean, and somthing that is not usual)
- pick the place where to go, get to the mental stage, where you can really pickup women
- know exactly what you want and have just right "routine" for that
- know what to say, when to say, to whom to say, how to say

few minutes before:
- roughly check yourself, ( not too clearly!)
- boost your game up
- go! dont hesitate

the foundation

In the intrenet, there is a vast amout of usable information, so why to create the weel for a 2.nd time, in this chapter, I will give you lots of useful infromation and links, to build the foundation for dating women

like in the " the community" chapter, i wrote that there are lots of UNBELIEVALBY talented "gurus", "pick-up artists","venusian artists" or what ever you want to call them. almost every one of them has their personal program for meeting women. it is not (in many cases) free. but the material is wery good

what i suggest for starting is
- the newsletters!!! ( in these websites, they ask your email to send a free newsleter where they try to sell their stuff and info of comming seminars etc. but there are really good information in many of them)
especially : david deangelo, cliffs list
- log in to ( i found wery helping) for example : david deangelo (to google) -> website. newsletter, its COMPLETELY FREE and there is TONS of usefull materall in them
- look for chats and forum, in many of them, there is tested material, and you can have some info what is to come if you try that or that. and allso you can ask your own questions aswell
-in youtobe, there are few good pick-up tecniques aswell


afther the newsletter, and the free stuff,:
-PUA (pick up artists) e-books, they usualy cost somthing, but they are worth it! ( and allso, skribd, is a fantastic site to find books, just write the author or the name of the book in the "search" - bar, and . tadaa)
-the audio tapes, or the video ,can be bought from the websites.... and the "intitle:index of" works wonders, then add what you want to seach, say, PUA -> "intitle:index of" PUA to google, and ...., im not advising this, cause it violates the copyright. they are worth it
- seminars. cost is not tottaly minimal, but it really is worht it, many of the PUAs work for their company that helps guys to meet women, and they do seminars, where they show, in bars and in bublic, what to do. tottaly worht their price

"the community"

"the community" or "seduction community" is (wikipedia ->) "a loose-knit subculture of men who strive for better sexual and romantic success with women through self-improvement and a greater understanding of social psychology"

it started started in the 1990 decade, and has sky roketed from then.
it is a place where the guys who know "the stuff" talk about it and have put it in a way that could be understood, many of the "good players" have their personal material, websites, videos, and ways of working,(whit women and teaching)

many people dont think that it really exists, but try to google : mystery method, ross jeffries, the game, neil strauss, david deangelo

and you'll see what i mean,

the community is not wery closed, but since it hasnt got a lot of public awarenes, (what is a good thing) its has managet to stay "quite" small

there is a common belief that " pick-up is NOT somthing that can be learned"- and it really is only a big LIE, it really is!. in the community, the men have done "the thing", written the "blue-print" to success with women.
not many people apresiate this, (espesially women, but still,...they had to lear how to put the make-up, so why cant we....) but for those that really are intrested and want to make a change in their life, this is it!

the start

the very fist thing to learn about dating women, is the foundation; way of thinking

Untill now, many of the guys I know, who havent been so popular whit women, have few...aspects or personal traits. Few things that they do, unstop!

here is small list of the "bad" habits, that the UNPOPULAR have:
- they ALWAYS look up to the girl
- asking the girl to lead (where would you like to go, what to do, and when)
- being the "the nice guy" ( you know....)
-nervous, very little self-confidense, etc



and here' s little "taste" of what the " the guys" have
- "the" bodylanguage
- allmost unitrested in the girl
- lots and lots of playing, teasing, kino (touching)
- life together
-brain together ( good sence of humor, style, able to read the situation)
and lots and lots more: alfa stuff

if you think rationally (whit your brain) some things in this list sound so bad that they sould send the girl SO fast away ....but, think again
I know that you have seen the "assholes", who, allmost allways steals the "good girls". and whit what???
handsome- dude, noWAY
good behavuour- no
rich- no
well educated- mostly...no

then what????

here is the "normal" stuff that guys think will atract women:
-handsome
-rich
-well educated
- modern
-well dressed
-"cool"
- in some "right" age
- very athletic

and gues what, all this shi* does NOTHING to do whit women, few might help you, but, some are really working against you, brining the odds even lover.

and also, you just seen the "asshole" to take your girl whit hardly none of the characters in the list....
somethings got to change!!!
i will do my best to help you whit that, i KNOW roughly what it feels, it is not that long when I where the same, now, i want to help all you guys to be successful whit women also!

the first thing to do, when starting to meet women,

is

GET YOUR SHI* TOGETHER
if you have no clue what your doing, women WILL sence that. and the cliche" fake it untill make it- works, little: you can learn vast amounts of openers, negs, indicators of highervalue, intresting stories, etc. and then, it's SO easy to mess up some little shit test, and then its all over,
IF you dont have your shi* together

im not talking of the (on grade 4-10) 7 and 8 's im talking about the 10s!!!! and really, it IS possible to make them intrested, but whit out the foundation , dude, no chance.

"then how do I start"?- you can start manyways, mostly by 2,
1. learn the tricks and "magic stuff" first, and get your game together afther- works , but is quite slowly, and lots of stuff that you have no idea will come up
2. get your game together-> you understand the situation, know by instict what to say. works wonders. trust me!

intro

only 3 years ago, i thought, "man, i must me the only man in the WHOLE EARTH that just cant atract women".
I found that it whas really depressing me, wearing out mentaly and physicaly and had the GREATEST idea, that did schange my whole life:
- I decided to learn how to date women

the journey is long, WERY long, and I do know, its not going to end, while im here. You can compare that to some sports that your really into, you know your good, and maybe the best, and still LOTS of lear, and lots of little things to polish.

in this blog I PROMISE to do my best to help YOU to achieve, women you want, and the women that you DESERVE

onward

In this blog, I will make my best to collect THE BEST materiall thats out there, and for free
- links
- personal experience
-some very basic tactiks that will get you far.
and LOTS OF MORE

allso, this is not just somthing i do 1 time a year, its ongoing blog, and i NEED YOUR HELP, write to me what there is to improve, add, correct: spelling and info mistaces( my 1.st language is not english, so try to keep up)

see you soon