the foundation

In the intrenet, there is a vast amout of usable information, so why to create the weel for a 2.nd time, in this chapter, I will give you lots of useful infromation and links, to build the foundation for dating women

like in the " the community" chapter, i wrote that there are lots of UNBELIEVALBY talented "gurus", "pick-up artists","venusian artists" or what ever you want to call them. almost every one of them has their personal program for meeting women. it is not (in many cases) free. but the material is wery good

what i suggest for starting is
- the newsletters!!! ( in these websites, they ask your email to send a free newsleter where they try to sell their stuff and info of comming seminars etc. but there are really good information in many of them)
especially : david deangelo, cliffs list
- log in to ( i found wery helping) for example : david deangelo (to google) -> website. newsletter, its COMPLETELY FREE and there is TONS of usefull materall in them
- look for chats and forum, in many of them, there is tested material, and you can have some info what is to come if you try that or that. and allso you can ask your own questions aswell
-in youtobe, there are few good pick-up tecniques aswell


afther the newsletter, and the free stuff,:
-PUA (pick up artists) e-books, they usualy cost somthing, but they are worth it! ( and allso, skribd, is a fantastic site to find books, just write the author or the name of the book in the "search" - bar, and . tadaa)
-the audio tapes, or the video ,can be bought from the websites.... and the "intitle:index of" works wonders, then add what you want to seach, say, PUA -> "intitle:index of" PUA to google, and ...., im not advising this, cause it violates the copyright. they are worth it
- seminars. cost is not tottaly minimal, but it really is worht it, many of the PUAs work for their company that helps guys to meet women, and they do seminars, where they show, in bars and in bublic, what to do. tottaly worht their price

"the community"

"the community" or "seduction community" is (wikipedia ->) "a loose-knit subculture of men who strive for better sexual and romantic success with women through self-improvement and a greater understanding of social psychology"

it started started in the 1990 decade, and has sky roketed from then.
it is a place where the guys who know "the stuff" talk about it and have put it in a way that could be understood, many of the "good players" have their personal material, websites, videos, and ways of working,(whit women and teaching)

many people dont think that it really exists, but try to google : mystery method, ross jeffries, the game, neil strauss, david deangelo

and you'll see what i mean,

the community is not wery closed, but since it hasnt got a lot of public awarenes, (what is a good thing) its has managet to stay "quite" small

there is a common belief that " pick-up is NOT somthing that can be learned"- and it really is only a big LIE, it really is!. in the community, the men have done "the thing", written the "blue-print" to success with women.
not many people apresiate this, (espesially women, but still,...they had to lear how to put the make-up, so why cant we....) but for those that really are intrested and want to make a change in their life, this is it!

the start

the very fist thing to learn about dating women, is the foundation; way of thinking

Untill now, many of the guys I know, who havent been so popular whit women, have few...aspects or personal traits. Few things that they do, unstop!

here is small list of the "bad" habits, that the UNPOPULAR have:
- they ALWAYS look up to the girl
- asking the girl to lead (where would you like to go, what to do, and when)
- being the "the nice guy" ( you know....)
-nervous, very little self-confidense, etc



and here' s little "taste" of what the " the guys" have
- "the" bodylanguage
- allmost unitrested in the girl
- lots and lots of playing, teasing, kino (touching)
- life together
-brain together ( good sence of humor, style, able to read the situation)
and lots and lots more: alfa stuff

if you think rationally (whit your brain) some things in this list sound so bad that they sould send the girl SO fast away ....but, think again
I know that you have seen the "assholes", who, allmost allways steals the "good girls". and whit what???
handsome- dude, noWAY
good behavuour- no
rich- no
well educated- mostly...no

then what????

here is the "normal" stuff that guys think will atract women:
-handsome
-rich
-well educated
- modern
-well dressed
-"cool"
- in some "right" age
- very athletic

and gues what, all this shi* does NOTHING to do whit women, few might help you, but, some are really working against you, brining the odds even lover.

and also, you just seen the "asshole" to take your girl whit hardly none of the characters in the list....
somethings got to change!!!
i will do my best to help you whit that, i KNOW roughly what it feels, it is not that long when I where the same, now, i want to help all you guys to be successful whit women also!

the first thing to do, when starting to meet women,

is

GET YOUR SHI* TOGETHER
if you have no clue what your doing, women WILL sence that. and the cliche" fake it untill make it- works, little: you can learn vast amounts of openers, negs, indicators of highervalue, intresting stories, etc. and then, it's SO easy to mess up some little shit test, and then its all over,
IF you dont have your shi* together

im not talking of the (on grade 4-10) 7 and 8 's im talking about the 10s!!!! and really, it IS possible to make them intrested, but whit out the foundation , dude, no chance.

"then how do I start"?- you can start manyways, mostly by 2,
1. learn the tricks and "magic stuff" first, and get your game together afther- works , but is quite slowly, and lots of stuff that you have no idea will come up
2. get your game together-> you understand the situation, know by instict what to say. works wonders. trust me!

intro

only 3 years ago, i thought, "man, i must me the only man in the WHOLE EARTH that just cant atract women".
I found that it whas really depressing me, wearing out mentaly and physicaly and had the GREATEST idea, that did schange my whole life:
- I decided to learn how to date women

the journey is long, WERY long, and I do know, its not going to end, while im here. You can compare that to some sports that your really into, you know your good, and maybe the best, and still LOTS of lear, and lots of little things to polish.

in this blog I PROMISE to do my best to help YOU to achieve, women you want, and the women that you DESERVE

onward

In this blog, I will make my best to collect THE BEST materiall thats out there, and for free
- links
- personal experience
-some very basic tactiks that will get you far.
and LOTS OF MORE

allso, this is not just somthing i do 1 time a year, its ongoing blog, and i NEED YOUR HELP, write to me what there is to improve, add, correct: spelling and info mistaces( my 1.st language is not english, so try to keep up)

see you soon